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Dating after being friends with benefits

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How do you have one or multiple healthy sexual relationships built on trust? Are you full of frustration, neediness, shame, self hate? Increased loneliness leading to chronic masturbation and porn addiction is replacing real loving connections.

I also offer the same advice to women, if they find themselves in this situation.As I read through the comments on Facebook over the weekend, I felt compelled to revisit the subject and I want to remind you of why it is a grave mistake to remain friends with an ex that has mistreated you.The reason why we want to remain friends with our exes, even when they have treated us ‘less than’ with an absence of love, care, trust, and respect, is because we want to feel .It’s not just feeling valid though that will have you itching to offer or take the hand of friendship.It’s hoping that they’ll miss you enough to come crawling back on their hands and knees and beg to be taken back.The way out of this would be to simply treat the relationship as it actually is now instead of acting as if it’s more. But there is no reason he would do anything different than he has been doing since what he’s been doing so far has worked well. Look to your life to fill you up, make you happy, and make you fulfilled. but when we’re in the situation ourselves, somehow we forget what it looks like from the outside.

Guys are very content with a relationships being what it is. The simple fact is this: asking or pressuring someone into moving the relationship forward does not work.

I met this guy through some friends and started liking him.

He liked the girl that introduced us and she also liked him.

I finally told him that I like him and wanted it to be more and his response was reasonably better than I hoped for and he said he “kinda likes” me.

I told him that I didn’t want to be just a “booty call” and he said he’s not like that, but he won’t make it more.

He will give in if he becomes too dependant on her as a friend with benefit.