Dating or married
I’ve met many charming men who have been very nice to me.
Before you start something with them, you have to ask yourself a few questions to make sure it’s something you really want to do. Are you just lonely with your life and you’re looking for some fun and a married guy is the only person there?If that’s not you, I’m guessing you’ll know someone who might want to know. and that’s partly why we’ve not blogged as consistently the past two months (thanks for your patience).This post won’t be exhaustive by any means, but I do hope to hit on some of the big topics “daters” should consider. Like marriage, buying a home is a BIG decision with huge consequences.Our list included a garage (we’ve never had one), location (close to family/friends, strong community), budget/price, and many other things. When it came time to start searching, we knew what we were looking for, so eliminating options was very straightforward.While dating, you must both understand the non-negotiables in your relationship and agree on them.I understand that there’s attraction on both sides, but that doesn’t justify the behavior. CYBERSPECTRE I love how you pretend you just accidentally wound up in this situation.
Advertisement My guess is that you feel entitled to pursue this man because you believe that your relationship history hasn’t been that great. You have the same problem I did: pursuing folks who were unavailable and relying exclusively on physical attraction.
This means they’ll manipulate you into thinking they’re miserable so you’ll take pity on them. Do you really want to waste your time with a married man who you never have a chance of actually being with?
Does he really have feelings for you or is he just fabricating them so you’ll climb into his bed?
We have shared wonderful moments, we spent nights and even weekends together…
Sex was important, but that was not the most important thing between us… Feeling loved by another man has helped me being more self-confident.
I’ve been faithful to my husband for 17 years, but I had the urge to feel this rush of adrenaline again, to seduce again…